Facebook is a new hedge in my marriage

When my husband elaborated on the disclosure of his affair with an ex-girlfriend  he said, "She first contacted me on Facebook".  They exchanged private conversations, contact information and everything possible to re-connect after no prior exchange for over 12 years. 

Protect your marriage on Facebook.  Have a dual account, share total access or don't use Facebook at all.  

This is a current and fast acting threat promoting infedelity and betrayal in our marriages.  Some say we are already facing threat when becoming curious about old flames and reconnecting via social websites.  If you feel reluctant to make this a guardrail to protect your marriage or worse if you pressume this will never effect your marriage please sit down with your spouse immediately and honestly talk about your list of friends on Facebook.

See research resources: http://www.themodestmomblog.com/2013/03/protecting-your-marriage-on-facebook/

http://www.womansday.com/_mobile/sex-relationships/dating-marriage/facebook-and-marriage